Life: It Is What You Make It

I have had a couple people tell that they want to move to another city/state/whatever because they can't find happiness (love, friends, job) where they are currently at.  And I think to myself that I once felt that way.  I hated everything about my life.  I'd going on date after date and never make a good connection.  Looking back into the forest I can see I was the problem.  There were plenty of opportunities here for a love life and friendships.  So maybe they don't need the change of scenery, maybe they need a change of self.  I know I did.